Are Parisian Rude?

Are the Stories You Have Heard True?

Author: The Traveling Professor/Friday, March 25, 2016/Categories: Paris

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With the exception of my French ex-mother-in-law, I generally find Parisians to be polite, helpful, and gracious.  However, it is their country you are visiting and certain protocols need to be observed.  French etiquette dictates that a greeting is to be extended before a conversation is initiated.  I usually say “bonjour, hello” to show my appreciation for their language but that I speak English.  I rarely have an issue with Parisians if I follow their ground rules.  After all, I am in their country.  If I don’t follow their customs, they may feel that I am the one being rude.   

Another cultural issue visitors have with the French is their different attitudes on customer service.  In North America, a common philosophy is “the customer is always right”.   That’s not always the case in France.  A complaint about a meal or a hotel room is sometimes only responded to with an apology, but not much more.  Although things are changing, don't expect them to replace or "comp" a meal if it is not to your satisfaction.  A refund may not be in order for products or services as readily as it is in the U.S.

On our last small group tour to Paris, I had some of my travelers try an experiment.  I simply asked them to say "bonjour" to just about everyone they encountered.  It could be construction workers, passersby on the street, clerks in stores, or people on the bus. It was a perfectly positive experience and I think it also helped new travelers to Paris feel more comfortable to deal with the Parisians.

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